“THREE BEST DOG BREEDS FOR KIDS”

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People know when it comes to dogs as pets, they are considered one of the most adoring creatures around the world. And as a pet lover, even if you are not, you must be well aware that dogs embody the quality of being true-hearted to their owners.

One cannot help but adopt this loving creature as they would make great pets for their families. Having a dog around would bring out the best in you and your families such as happiness and a stress-free nearby with their happy soul. Not just in you but dogs would make the best companion your child could ever ask for, but also they will have a positive impression in your child’s life, helping them be responsible.

Dog breeds matter for everyone and it is essential if you are going to adopt a pet for your kid. Not every dog that you see has the same mannerisms. Each one is known for its diverse eminence.

Before adopting the ideal dog for your kid, you first need to consider certain factors.

Temperament

When choosing a dog’s breed, choose the type of temperament you would like to have that would snug well with your kid. Do you consider a highly energized dog or a calm one? Or the one who is protective or aggressive. For example; if you have a toddler then you might go for the calmer one and if you have an adult then your child would love to have the dog who is more energized.

Size

Preferring Dogs based on their sizes would be unjustifiable. As one size doesn’t fit all, a short-statured dog, not necessarily, would be a good choice for your kid. Every dog varies based on their sizes. For example, tiny dogs are usually more excitable and might hurt your baby inadvertently. Some large dogs may be the right choice for your kid, as some of them are submissive.

Energy level

Comparably, If your kid has a playful personality then get him a highly energized dog who would love to play games with your kid. And if your kid likes to devote most of his time at home then get him the dog who can renounce fetch for cuddles.

Now that you have figured out the basic factors to look for in a dog here are the 3 lists of dog you can consider to adopt for you kid.

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Collie

Collies were originally used as herding dogs, they were hailed from Scotland and Northern England. They became popular when Queen Victoria visited Scotland and immediately fell in love. Thanks to her! Since then they have become common as household pets.

Collies are known by their furry coat on their bodies. Their almond-like eye carries the best expressions which makes them the true superstar in their canine.

Temperament

As collies are smart and intelligent creatures, they tend to learn quickly, they also require some basic training which they will do it happily and hastily. They can partake in activities such as hunting and dog sports. However, bear in mind to offer them some tasty treats to make the training session a lot more fun.

Collies are active and smart so they entail some exercise to carry out weekly, you could either take them to a dog park or either go for a leash walk with them.

Size

Collies are medium-sized dogs, males having a height between 24–26 inches, whereas females having 22–24 inches. On the other hand, the male body weighs between 60–75 pounds and the female around 50–65 pounds. They tend to live around 10- 12 years.

Energy level

They require huge spaces for them to play. The same activity every day will lead to boredom and that will cause barking so introduce them with different games or exercise.

They love interacting with others so some hands-on games would do wonders for them.

They also love their relaxation time and would instantly jump to your couch after playing for the whole day.

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Golden retriever

They were first bred in Scotland in the mid-19th century, to retrieve shot birds, mainly waterfowl and duck. With their soft mouth, they could easily retrieve shot game undamaged.

They are double-coated with a thick inner coat which provides them warmth when they are outdoors.

Temperament

Golden retrievers are joyous and devoted, with a smile on their faces, they love socializing and they would be sad if left unaccompanied.

Their patience level is great and can be well suited for your kids. They are well-mannered which makes them great family pets.

Adult golden retriever maintains some puppyish characteristics who would never miss a chance to cuddle.

Size

They are medium-large sized, well-built dogs with extensive heads and having small ears that fall onto their cheeks. Female height comes around 23–24 inches while male height comes around 21.5–22.5 inches. On the other hand, Females weighing around 55–65 pounds and Male 65–75 pounds. They live around 10–12 years.

Energy level:

They are high-spirited animals with an outgoing quality they are into playing outdoor games.

Alaskan Malamute

Their name is derived from a tribe known as Malamute that lived in Kotzebue Sound in northwestern Alaska. They were used as sled dogs, to hump hefty loads. They are also known as freighters.

Temperament

Malamutes are quiet dogs, unlike Siberian husky who is more vocal. They will remain silent most of the time and will bark rarely making woo woo sound.

They are fond of people and are very affectionate towards their owners.

If you have an adult kid then they are the best option to go for, as they are highly energized and if you have an infant or toddler then they might be not good an option because of their giant bodies.

Size

They are known for their deep chest and strong body, their head is broad with triangular-shaped ears. Male Alaskan Malamute Height is around 23–24 inches and female 21.5–22.5 inches. When it comes to Weight Male Weighs 85 pounds and Female 75 pounds.

Their life expectancy is around 10–14 year.

Energy level

They are an active breed, highly energized dogs and they are in constant need of enthusiastic events for an active mind and body. They are more comfortable in a large house, but also can adapt to an apartment size home only when they are given enough space to play or ample walks in the parks or your backyard.

So what are you waiting for? Go get your kid his best playmate.

That is how she is

While putting down her body to rest on bed, she reminisces memories from the past, contemplating the times when she used to live a contented life. When everything was normal back then. She used to have heaps of friends with whom she spent most of her time guffawing. She was a girl with outgoing personality. Light-hearted, is what she was known for. She had everything a girl could wish for. Her life was as sweet as a cupcake. “Nothing could ever possibly go wrong”, she had said to herself while living her best days in the jiffy.

But, not always, you get what you wish for, God has some other plans for you. For you, to absorb it, for you, to live with it, for you to deal with it. A minute where you are overwhelmed with blessings in your life becomes the one where everything takes a turn for the unexpected.

There was a time when she used to soar with open wings anytime and anywhere. But now, she can’t spread the same wings even if she wants to, because time doesn’t stay the same. And now, she has changed so much, that sometimes she is misunderstood. The girl with an extroverted personality has now turned into an introvert. She badly wants to be the girl who she used to be once, a long time ago. She wants to hang out with her friends, be in love with somebody, and make new friends. But her mind and the circumstances that life has created for her won’t let her change. Instead she finds herself seated at a corner, gazing into emptiness while tears flow down her cheeks. She doesn’t like being at home, because the walls keep taking her back to a time that reminds her how messed up her life is. She wishes to go far away from her troubled life, where only for once, she could be free from all the uncertainties. Most of the time, she occupies herself by doing what she loves. Every now and then, she reads a book, listens to music or writes something. But often she is nowhere to be found.

Cried many times, prayed many times, and hopes everyday that one day this troubled time will pass out of sight. Because she believes in God, and she knows whatever is happening or has happened so far, is for a good cause, she knows how to remain positive and stay strong. She is proud of the woman she is today. Thanks to herself.

WHY NOT MEN?

Isn’t it weird how always woman are held responsible for house chores, before and after marriage. It has been a stereotype that women are the one who should take active part in household activities. It’s a trend that will never lose its color. It’s always us, being lectured to assist their mom’s in house chores, and if we disagree, get ready for being showered with all the taunts, that’ll ultimately constrain you to do the work. It’s a weapon that our parents will never stop using against us. Instead they should be using this weapon for their sons to make them realize that it’s as important for men to partake in house chores as it is important for women.

I don’t understand the point of women being in charge of all the house work independently. Whether she is a housewife or a working woman. It has been made a liability for a woman to manage the housework wholly and solely.

Let us take an example of Prophet Muhammad Peace Be Upon Him, He is such a great example to every generation. Once, when asked from Aisha (Prophet’s Wife), how the Prophet occupied himself at home, She said, “Prophet Muhammad always use to keep himself busy with serving the family“. According to a report Aisha has also said, “He did what one of you would do in his house. He mended sandals and patched garments and sewed.” He cooked and cleaned as well, we can see from the life of the best person to have ever lived that he himself used to do chores at home. So start teaching your son the duties and responsibilities of being a man.

 

For parents, it should be their foremost responsibility to provide awareness to their children on such matters, especially sons. Parents should be encouraging their son for helping their sister and mother in household activities, and for that to happen a father should be a role model for their sons, just when a son see his father making an effort to help his wife in cleaning the house, his son will be following his father’s actions. And will do the same to their spouses when they get married. Couples that share family responsibilities are an excellent example for their children. By sharing the responsibilities, they show that it is acceptable to help each other and they are a good example of what being responsible entails. It all depends on how a child is being brought up and what values are given to them.

Some studies suggest that couples who share household work equally, sustain a healthy relationship. Sharing household duties is also a sign of care and love between two partners. It shows that the other person cares about their partner’s well-being and does not want to overwork his or her spouse. Lending a hand, will always be valued no matter how small the help is.  They will also be a good example to other spouses who burden one partner with household chores. For a couple, the best way is to split the work. Couples should be dividing all the maintenance evenly. Just sit down and decide which ones you will take and which ones you would rather not. Couple who share equal household responsibilities enhance love between them. It also reduces the levels of tension which, actually, prompts the couple to work optimally even in their roles outside their home. Burdening one partner with all household chores can make that partner disengage emotionally in their marriage. It is, therefore, necessary for couples to be equally responsible for domestic work.

So next time you see your sister, mother or even your spouse working alone, make your way up to them and ask them if they need your help.

5 REASONS WHY HAVING THICK HAIR ISN’T THAT GREAT

Have you ever wondered why God has blessed you with thick hair?

Maybe because he wanted you to enjoy the many perks that come along with it. Be grateful and feel lucky. Flip you hair like you are a goddamn star and make people go “WOAH”…

You can be your own Elsa sometimes or Rapunzel at other times and show off how creative you can be with your hair.

But, alas every rose has its thorn and you will realize that life is not that easy to handle and as such, neither is your hair.

 Thick hair brings with it many and various kinds of troubles and it’s not easy to handle them. It’s like being in a love-hate relationship with your hair.

They need your constant attention and you want their commitment in return. Wait but, they rarely live up to your hopes despite all the attention you give them and they can be so mean to you when they’re not in the mood.

 

 So today I am going to discuss 5 reasons why having thick hair isn’t all that great:

 Be it your friend’s birthday, a day out with your mates or a wedding, you want to look your best and you know that won’t happen without straightening your hair – a process that sometimes that can take hours or even the whole day, because you are not Priyanka Chopra from Pantene’s ad that and running a brush through your hair once won’t magically make them look straightened, shiny and just flawlessly perfect.

You feel that constant headache by tying your hair into a freakin’ ponytail, it is like a war between you and your hair that never ends.

You end up emptying two full large size shampoos in just a month because it’s hard to form any froth and it requires lots and lots of shampoo to wash your hair properly.

 

 Your bobby pins are your best friend or, at times, your worst enemy. If you want to tie your hair up for an occasion it usually requires a lot of bobby pins, they either work for you conveniently or then you lose them somewhere in your hair and the search for them can take you an endless amount of time which is exasperating.

It’s an enormous nuisance having all those people bombard you with tons of stupid questions if you cut your hair short even if get them slightly trimmed, at times you can’t help but think if you’ve offended them by cutting your hair short or if it is somehow a sin to do as you please with your hair.